Monthly Archive for January, 2008

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Tackle It Tuesday

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tackle it tuesday Today I’m not really tackling housework.  I did a lot of that this weekend, as I finally had the motivation to clean the house from top to bottom, including the disgusting upstairs bathroom.  We’re the only ones that use it, as most guests use the downstairs bathroom, so I have a tendancy to just ignore it until I can’t handle it any more.  I also tackled some of the laundry this weekend.

So, you’re probably wondering what I’m tackling today then.  Well, it’s my birthday today so I am tackling ME!  I have taken the time this morning to enjoy some news (I know it doesn’t sound too exciting, but you don’t understand I rarely get to watch the news any more), share an orange with Clare, and now I’m off to have a peaceful shower.  This afternoon I have a few errands to run, but for the most part I will be at home relaxing doing what I enjoy the most - pure silence.  Brad has offeredParty Hat! to cook dinner for me tonight, so I forsee an enjoyable evening of martini’s and dinner. 

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charmaspice

Friday Night Slug Fest?

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The NotebookAfter our early evening shoutfest with Clare I was in the mood to just sit back and veg - aka be like a slug.  My day started out early with Clare wanting to watch TV in our room, which was fine with me because I was still sleepy and slightly hung over.  Yes, it was another cocktail night in the Eastowners abode last night.  I went to turn the tv on, however with all the lovely wet snow we got last night there was no such luck in the tv realm as the satellite was covered in snow.  So we settled on watching Fern Gully & then Fantasia to pass our morning away, and it gave me a chance to nap.  Then it was time to get dressed, eat lunch, and head to school.  There were a few attitude adjustments that I had to take care of on our way out the door, but mainly I was focused on getting Clare to school. 

When I picked up Clare from school her teacher told me htat she had been in tears earlier because the pom poms that are on strings on her boots were all wet and dirty.  The main purpose of the pom poms is to tie the top of the boots tight, however she never ties them and they just drag on the ground.  So, I knew the day would come when I eventually would have to but them and pull them out.  Clare however had an idea to wash them and keep them after I cut them out.  Why oh why do they come up with these ideas to want to keep things that are shear garbage!  So the temper tantrum began, and she tried to pull them out of the garbage.  I basically told her to knock it off and when she didn’t she was sent to her room.  The temper tantrum insued, and got only bigger.  I had to go up the stairs and knock some sense into the girl, and try to get her to quit.  The tantrum only got bigger, and she lost her TV privledges for tonight, and she was on her way to loosing more.  I had her stay in her room til Brad got home, and she still wouldn’t stop.  I was nice and gave her permission to read books, but nothing else.  She said she was bored up there, and I said that’s what happens when you loose your privledges.  Brad came home and the tantrum started all over again!  She was to stay in her room until dinner, and then after dinner she was back in there til bed.  We decided on sandwiches for dinner, so I ran to get them with a side trip to the store.  By the time I got home it was time for Clare to go to bed.  She is so weasely about trying to make sure she gets the chance to watch TV tomorrow.

After she was set to go to bed and I flipped through the channels about 3 times - nothing on.  I am really tired of this whole writer stike, it really ruins my evening veg time.  So, tonight with Clare in bed and Brad down in the basement listening to his music I settled down with a bowl of popcorn to watch The Notebook.  I hadn’t watched it in a while and it was a good movie to cuddle up in my blanket and munch on some popcorn and just feel like a slug.  I love this movie; the relationship Noah & Alli have are very similar to the one Brad & I have.  We fight and we always seem to lock horns, but in the end we always make up, and we have a very passionate relationship.  He’s always a jack ass, and I’m always the emotional know it all…but in the end we still love each other.  I guess it keeps life interesting.  All in all it was a good night for a “chick flick” as Brad would say, and not only did it help me pass my time away, but it helped me feel all sappy.

charmaspice

Feeling a Little Green

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green ideasNo, not green around the gills or anything of the sort.  Green as in Earth friendly.  I have been making some effort to try and change our way of living in the little ways to promote a better life for not only us, but our planet.  I’ve always been a big recycler, and a supporter for doing things that aren’t so wasteful that it ruins our dear little planet.  I remember when I was younger turning the water off when brushing my teeth so we could save water….not necessarily money as we lived in the country and had a well.  I’ve also been known to pick up liter when walking down the street, and doing little things like that.  I was super excited when we moved into our house and had recycling, as when we lived in the apartments they didn’t have anything of the sort and I always felt bad about throwing away things I knew could be recycled…but those dumpsters are oh so addicting (I don’t need this anymore…I’ll just toss it in the dumpster).   I became even more excited when I learned that now in the city of Grand Rapids you can recycle plasics with the numbers 1-7 on them (previously you could ecosonly recycle 1’s & 2’s).

So, this past Spring I began by searching for better laundry detergents and house hold cleaners.  I have fallen in love with Eco’s laundry detergent!  I buy it in large jugs from my favorite warehouse Costco.  You can buy it in smaller jugs at Meijer and health food stores, but it’s not as good of a bargain.  It is made from things that our planet can break down as I am washing my laundry, and it makes my laundry oh so soft!  This stuff not only smells good, but it has a soy softner built right in it so you don’t always need to add softner to your wash.  I also add about 1/2 a cup ofdryer clothes Baking Soda to my wash for that extra boost it needs with stains and a 5 year old!  I have found though living in MI in my drafty, extremely dry, and electic shock prone house that I do need to do softner sheets to help aid in the static in my clothes.  For that I use the Naked Method dryer cloths.  They don’t have a scent of their own, so I can keep smelling my fab Eco’s, and they are also biodegradable and infused with plant-based softeners right into the fabric as it dries. So your clothes feel soft when you pull them out of the warm dryer - I love warm clothes!

I have also taken to buying Method’s all purpose surface cleaner, and window wash among other things.  The all purpose surface cleaner is great, and has a nautural degreaser in it so it works wonders in our kitchen.  It’s also great for our island, as that’s where we tend to do a lot of prep work for our martini nights.  Plain ole’ hot water just doesn’t get the stickiness off like the cleaner does.  The great thing about the cleaner is that I don’t have to scrub like I would had I used water on the counters.  I love the window wash because it’s mint scented.  I almost want to wash the windows just to smell the stuff!  Although I am not as great about washing windows as you’d think - like I said “I almost” want to.  I think Spring may bring a new attitude though.  For those looking to purchase the Method stuff I buy most of mine at Target, as they have just about everything always in stock when I go shopping and it’s a decent price.

Now, onto my most recent attemp to make our household a little bit Greener - drum roll please.  Yesterday while I was out shopping for office supplies after dropping Clare off at school I decided to swing into World Market.  I LOVE this store, and they have some great stuff (even greater when you can find a bargain).  They had a few rows of 50% off stuff, and I figured I’d cloth napkinsdo some quick “looking”….as I went in with only one thing in mind to look for.  Looking always somehow ends up being buying though - I can’t figure out how it happens, but it does.  They always have great place mats  & cloth napkins, but they always cost more than I’m willing to pay for.  I found on the clearance rack some cute greyish cloth napkins with black & white trim for 99 cents each, and they had roughly 12 of them, and then I found 6 yellow and green fringed cloth napkins for the same price.  So for $17.82 I have 18 cloth napkins for us to use instead of paper napkins which are BAD for the environment (due to bleaching and tree usage as well as some other things).  I know, your saying…but the laundry!  I don’t think it’ll be too big of a problem for me as I have enough for about a weeks worth of dinners and some other meals, and very rarely do I go over a week with the laundry.  I don’t think we’ll get away from using paper napkins right away, but at least it’s a start!  I also bought some cute multi-colored placemats to spruce up the dreariness of winter for our dining room table.

So, I am feeling a bit Greener today, and much better about helping out our planet (it’s the little things people).  Of course I still have more stuff that I want to try or do to help us out, and I am always looking to my pal Look Mom Look! for ideas with her Tweenie’s Greenies posts (she is the queen of environmental friendliness in my bloggy world).  I hope that you are helping Earth out too - because we ALL live here, and I want it to be around (as well as some of those cute polar bears) when Clare’s kids, and their kids, and their kids, etc are living here.  Just remember every little bit helps!

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Auto Atrocity

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brokencar.jpgAs many if you probably know by now, I abhor cars.   Well, it’s really a love/hate relationship I guess.  Cars get me places I want to go; like the beer store.  But I still hate them.

With all the rain and high humidity from the warm weather and melting snow, my car decided to start acting up.  Perhaps it was because it hadn’t had a tune-up since before Clare was born.  Perhaps it was because it is in fact as sentient as I sometimes believe and it hates me as much as I hate it.

Either way, it was idling fine, but then began sputtering when I gave it gas; worse when it was in gear.  I began to think it out as some kind of fuel problem.  I did my usual reading and research and was set to buy a fuel filter and a new injector; something the car has needed before when things like this happen and probably should get again anyway.

For some reason I didn’t make the purchase though.   Something told me to go home and to really pay attention to what it was doing.  So I did.  It idled fine.  Gave it gas and it sputtered like crazy; and backfired.  Ahh…  ELECTRICAL.  So we went to the store last night and bought all the usual tune-up essentials; cap, rotor, wires, and plugs.  I picked up an air filter because I didn’t know when -that- was last changed.

This morning, I went to move the car into the driveway and nothing; no sputtering, backfiring, or anything.  It’s got cold again and is completely dry outside.  I think I got it.  I replaced the wires and plugs (and the air filter), but found that the desk jockey at the autoparts store gave me the wrong damned cap and rotor.  Nothing can ever go right.

The wires were showing rust through some of the joints and the plugs were basically gone.  Likely that’s probably most of the issue, but the cap and rotor will still need to be replaced.  I’ll be making an exchange this weekend.

Fun times.  And the exhaust needs to be welded up again.  That’ll have to wait until spring.

charmaspice

Wordless Wednesday - Turtle Glasses

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Just before Christmas my brother Larry sent us a package.  In it were things he and his wife had picked up in Hawaii on thier honeymoon - including these glasses - of course Clare couldn’t resist striking a pose.

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charmaspice

Tackle It Tuesday

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tackle it tuesdayLet’s see….what am I not tackling today!  It’s one of those days in the Eastowner house that just doesn’t have enough hours in the day.  So far this morning I’ve tackled the sleepless Clare by argueing her back to bed at 5:30am, because she wanted to sleep with us.  We have NEVER allowed her to sleep with us in the middle of the night.  If it’s between the hours of 7pm and 7am then she is to be in her room….but somehow she has this idea that she needs to sleep with us.  I feel like I’m back to basics with a toddler sometimes when in reality she’s 5, and knows the rules.  I couldn’t get back to sleep, so I got up at a very unlikable hour of 6am, showered, started laundry - folded 2 loads, took Brad to work, and have already run 2 loads of laundry and it’s only 10am!  Dinner is simmering in the crock pot, and in a few moments we will be out the door to have my car looked at.  I don’t know if you remember last Spring when some crazy, non-paying attention woman ran into my car in a snow storm while I was on my way to take Clare to Preschool.  Well I had to have the rear panel and door redone on my car.  Now suddenly the door isn’t ligning up and even though it’s shut as hard as my body can slam it shut….the car still thinks it’s open.  So I’ll be driving down the road and all of a sudden the dome light will come on.  I’m worried that one day I’m going to forget to put my foot against the door when I push my key fob, and I’ll come out to a dead battery.  I’ll be sure to let you know the outcome of that.  Let’s see…oh yes, so Clare has school, then after school it’s onto pick up Brad, scarf dinner, and go to my Market Training for my new in-home party business.  I’m kind of excited to go, as I think it’ll help me get motivated to get more parties booked.  I’m just hoping that it doesn’t get the feeling of “just one more thing to do today” from me before I have a mental breakdown because something else gets added to my plate unexpectedly.  What are you tackling today?  To see what others are doing head on over to 5 Minutes For Mom and check it out!

charmaspice

Why Can’t I Be More Like Bree?

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breeI don’t even know if it’s physically and mentally possible to be more like Bree or not.  For those of you that don’t know, she’s the ultra perfect housewife on Depserate Housewives played by Marcia Cross.  She cooks, bakes, cleans, gardens, does crafts, tries to be a good mother, and she does it with perfection.  I don’t think that there are enough hours in the days, weeks, and years for me to be as good as she is.  I can hardly keep up with the laundry, errands, making of dinner, cleaning of the house, and daily life I call mine.  I know it’s all normal, but some days it just gets me down and I feel the urge to find a corner to sulk in.  Why is it that we as women feel the need to conquer all in our lives?  Is it something we picked up from our mothers?  Is it something society projects upon us (as well as the need to be beautiful every moment of the day)?  Is it something instictively inside of us that keeps us ticking?  Or maybe it’s all of the above?  I find myself with the urge to make everything perfect in my home, now if only I could get the inhabitants of our home to stand still and not touch a thing so it could stay perfect.  Somehow I don’t see that happening with a very active 5 year old, and a dog that sheds!  I think I’m just overwhelmed with the dust that’s settled with the holidays, and my non-motivation from all the huplah of the holidays to get it all cleaned, and put back where it belongs.  Anyone else having similar break downs?

charmaspice

The Sleep God is Against Me!

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sleep god  For those of you that don’t know Hypnos pictured here is the Greek God of sleep…and last night I think he had it out for me.  Bedtime for Clare was delayed a bit by dinner, and clean-up time.  Brad tucked her in with his usual bedtime routine, and no sooner than 15 minutes went by and she was crying and screaming about bad dreams.  Earlier in the afternoon Clare & I watched Monkeybone while we enjoyed a dreary day inside.  We had watched it before (a long time ago though), so I thought nothing of it.  Apparently though there’s a scene when Brendan Frasier fills the monkey dolls with nightmare juice, and gives a dog a nightmare of a cat attacking the dog.  Clare couldn’t get it out of her head.  She is normally so resilient when it comes to things I think she might be scared of, but apparently this one shook her up.  It took us about 30 to 45 minutes to finally get her settled down, and be able to fall asleep.  Music was the trick, as I brought up her new princess music player my mom got her…so she could listen to happy music.  Thankfully it worked.  By this point I was ready for a drink, so we settled down to watch the remainder of the new Simpson’s episode with a martini.  We also watched the season finale’ of Dexter.  If you get Showtime, and you can catch it…it’s a great murder mystery show.  Brad’s dad recommended it to us, and it was worth it to add to our DVR list.  We ended up staying up late…far too late for me, and way past my bedtime.  Then this morning Brad rewoke me up after he had already left and had to return home to tell me his car isn’t running correctly, and he couldn’t drive it to work.  SUCK!  So, I had to wake up a very sleepy Clare to take him to work.  I was hoping both her and I could sleep in.  Here’s hoping tonights bedtime will be better! 

charmaspice

Game Review - Scrabble Jr.

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scrabble Jr  So, for Christmas this year we decided to start getting into “family” gifts.  While out shopping I was perusing the game aisle, and came accross Scrabble Junior.  We had this when I was younger, and I remember playing it with my brothers and it being an alright game.  It’s a great game for preschoolers on up through early-elementary despite the boxes age description being for ages 5 and up.  Unless you are someone with mental challenges, it’d be pretty boring for most older than probably age 8.  The basics around the game are great in helping with letter recognition, and then later building it into reading the words.  Because Clare knew most of her letters by age 4, it probably would have been good to start then - but now we know for future gifts or references.

There are 2 sides to the board.  The first side has words already spelled out for you, and the idea is to play 2 letter tiles at a time to finish the word - the person that finishes the word gets a score triangle.  So, the idea is to finish the most words, without your opponent finishing the word you started.  While playing it for the first time with Clare today I found it hard for her to get into the strategy, and ended up helping her pick letter tiles so she’d finish words.  As we played though I had her read the words she made, and that made for a good bonus challege.  I have a feeling though that this side of the board will end up having limited play, as the more we spell out the words the more bored she may get with it.  I think she may want to play more for now though, as today she won by one word.  We’ll see though, and I’ll keep you posted!

Side two is a blank scrabble board, and we can spell our own words.  The downfall I fear though will be that their are only certain tiles to spell with, and our word play will become shortened.  For a beginning reader though I think it’s a great game, and I hope that we get lots of play out of it.  We bought ours at Target, but you can get them at most retail stores or online for varying prices between $10 and $12 unless you find it on sale - which I’m sure you can.  It was a great way to fill our soggy afternoon today, and it had some educational value - something I always look for in a good game!

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BCAR: JJ Grey & Mofro

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folder1.jpgBased on who-knows-what, Amazon told me that I wanted this disc.  It’s spooky sometimes how close Amazon’s “we believe you’ll like this” group of items is right on the money.

Mofro is good time, funky blues music, reminiscent of the dirtier blues-rock of bands like Rare Earth and Booker T & The MG.  It’s full of organs, horns, gritty guitars and funky bass… a combo that instantly makes me listen, draws me in and plays to a part of my soul that I rarely get to see.

This kind of music evokes that same kind of emotion some get from their mom’s chocolate chip cookies.  It’s that comfortable part of times-gone-past.  It’s not too often that an album evokes this kind of emotion, but since I’ve purchased this album, I’ve probably listened to it 50+ times.

Not only is the music that great, but it’s a sonically wonderful recording with great emotion in the recording.  You can tell the engineer loved recording the music as much as the band loved playing it.

Grey is a very impressive, soulful vocalist.  These songs come from his gut.  His emotion overflows out of his vocals.  You can hear that he was in a different place when recording this album.  The band is the same way.  They own these songs.  Raw emotion just can’t be faked and you can hear it on this record.

This album comes highly recommended if you like the aforementioned groups as well as things like Robert Randolph and the Family Band and even perhaps if you like Creedence Clearwater Revival, though I think Grey is a bit more laid-back than the Fogerty’s were.