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Feeling a Little Green

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green ideasNo, not green around the gills or anything of the sort.  Green as in Earth friendly.  I have been making some effort to try and change our way of living in the little ways to promote a better life for not only us, but our planet.  I’ve always been a big recycler, and a supporter for doing things that aren’t so wasteful that it ruins our dear little planet.  I remember when I was younger turning the water off when brushing my teeth so we could save water….not necessarily money as we lived in the country and had a well.  I’ve also been known to pick up liter when walking down the street, and doing little things like that.  I was super excited when we moved into our house and had recycling, as when we lived in the apartments they didn’t have anything of the sort and I always felt bad about throwing away things I knew could be recycled…but those dumpsters are oh so addicting (I don’t need this anymore…I’ll just toss it in the dumpster).   I became even more excited when I learned that now in the city of Grand Rapids you can recycle plasics with the numbers 1-7 on them (previously you could ecosonly recycle 1’s & 2’s).

So, this past Spring I began by searching for better laundry detergents and house hold cleaners.  I have fallen in love with Eco’s laundry detergent!  I buy it in large jugs from my favorite warehouse Costco.  You can buy it in smaller jugs at Meijer and health food stores, but it’s not as good of a bargain.  It is made from things that our planet can break down as I am washing my laundry, and it makes my laundry oh so soft!  This stuff not only smells good, but it has a soy softner built right in it so you don’t always need to add softner to your wash.  I also add about 1/2 a cup ofdryer clothes Baking Soda to my wash for that extra boost it needs with stains and a 5 year old!  I have found though living in MI in my drafty, extremely dry, and electic shock prone house that I do need to do softner sheets to help aid in the static in my clothes.  For that I use the Naked Method dryer cloths.  They don’t have a scent of their own, so I can keep smelling my fab Eco’s, and they are also biodegradable and infused with plant-based softeners right into the fabric as it dries. So your clothes feel soft when you pull them out of the warm dryer - I love warm clothes!

I have also taken to buying Method’s all purpose surface cleaner, and window wash among other things.  The all purpose surface cleaner is great, and has a nautural degreaser in it so it works wonders in our kitchen.  It’s also great for our island, as that’s where we tend to do a lot of prep work for our martini nights.  Plain ole’ hot water just doesn’t get the stickiness off like the cleaner does.  The great thing about the cleaner is that I don’t have to scrub like I would had I used water on the counters.  I love the window wash because it’s mint scented.  I almost want to wash the windows just to smell the stuff!  Although I am not as great about washing windows as you’d think - like I said “I almost” want to.  I think Spring may bring a new attitude though.  For those looking to purchase the Method stuff I buy most of mine at Target, as they have just about everything always in stock when I go shopping and it’s a decent price.

Now, onto my most recent attemp to make our household a little bit Greener - drum roll please.  Yesterday while I was out shopping for office supplies after dropping Clare off at school I decided to swing into World Market.  I LOVE this store, and they have some great stuff (even greater when you can find a bargain).  They had a few rows of 50% off stuff, and I figured I’d cloth napkinsdo some quick “looking”….as I went in with only one thing in mind to look for.  Looking always somehow ends up being buying though - I can’t figure out how it happens, but it does.  They always have great place mats  & cloth napkins, but they always cost more than I’m willing to pay for.  I found on the clearance rack some cute greyish cloth napkins with black & white trim for 99 cents each, and they had roughly 12 of them, and then I found 6 yellow and green fringed cloth napkins for the same price.  So for $17.82 I have 18 cloth napkins for us to use instead of paper napkins which are BAD for the environment (due to bleaching and tree usage as well as some other things).  I know, your saying…but the laundry!  I don’t think it’ll be too big of a problem for me as I have enough for about a weeks worth of dinners and some other meals, and very rarely do I go over a week with the laundry.  I don’t think we’ll get away from using paper napkins right away, but at least it’s a start!  I also bought some cute multi-colored placemats to spruce up the dreariness of winter for our dining room table.

So, I am feeling a bit Greener today, and much better about helping out our planet (it’s the little things people).  Of course I still have more stuff that I want to try or do to help us out, and I am always looking to my pal Look Mom Look! for ideas with her Tweenie’s Greenies posts (she is the queen of environmental friendliness in my bloggy world).  I hope that you are helping Earth out too - because we ALL live here, and I want it to be around (as well as some of those cute polar bears) when Clare’s kids, and their kids, and their kids, etc are living here.  Just remember every little bit helps!

dead headphonist

With you, may the force be.

forcesaber.jpgAs most of you have probably surmised or just plain ol’ knew, we have an early elementary school age daughter. Char has posted previously about the kid’s interest in Star Wars. One of the things that was on the MUST HAVE list this XMas was a couple of lightsabers “so we can fight.”

While the interest in Star Wars is pretty cool for me, it does sometimes boggle my mind to think that one moment she’s play-acting Barbie’s and the next moment, she’s bringing the fury with a noisy red toy lightsaber.

She is furious with a ’saber. And they are cool.

We picked them off of Amazon; mainly because their price was better than anyone we had seen. I was sure that I didn’t want to get the $10 lightsabers; one’s with no sounds, lights, or “force action”. For $10 more, you get a whole lot more. The $20 models are better built and include all the “bells and whistles” that make them truly a good toy.

These are highly recommended if you have a child that is a fan of Star Wars. Here’s a link to the Darth Vader lightsaber.

charmaspice

Article brings Awareness…I hope!

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Disclaimer:  This blog posting is of my personal opinion, and in no way is a jab at any one person’s religion or beliefs.  It is what I have always believed, and is one of the reasons why I left the Catholic upbringing.  If you feel that your sensabilities may be hurt, then I urge you to read no further.

11 19 People EditionSo, with the fundraiser Clare’s school did for magazines I decided to become a regular subscriber of People.  I love reading it…the latest dish on celebs, fashion, and what’s going on in the social world (besides politics - which I find boring).  In this weeks issue (Nov. 19, 2007) there was a great article called “One Mother’s Tragic Lesson”.  It was about how a mom disowned her lesbian daughter just because she was a lesbian, and the mom was a Christian ( and as a Christian we are taught that homosexuality is a sin).  This mom, spent many years disliking her daughter, and the fact that she brought partners home for holidays, graduation parties, and the like, felt that she was completing a horrible sin just for being a lesbian.  Years went by and their relationship suffered.  They went to conselor’s, and of course nothing helped mend their relationship - as most mom’s can understand, her dream of her daughter growing up to get married and have a family was no longer going to be fulfilled.  As the years went on her daughter pulled away, and sent an angry letter home.  Her mother did nothing, until it was too late.  Her daughter had commited suicide.  That year the mom began reading about homosexuality and studying the Bible…and in the end she found herself thinking ” This is not a sin.  These people are just like we are; they want the same things we do.” 

Normally I do not find myself promoting anything religious…I try to stay open minded, and allow others to believe what they believe, while I believe what I believe.  I have no one philosophy, and I believe in many things.  The mom in this article could no longer be kept silent, and has told her stories to many; finally coming up with the name “TEACH Ministries“….it stands for  To Educate About the Consequences of Homophobia.  You can visit their website at the above link.  After doing so I found that they are part of 5 families that were interviewed for a movie that won prizes at the Filmdance Film Festival.  I think this is an absolutely wonderful organization and I can only hope that more people will become more accepting of those around them that happen to be different in only their sexual orientation - and in no other way, we are all humans after all.

I think I’m going to get off my soap box now and relax.  Be kind to all humans, everyone wants to live the life that they want….and so long as nobody is dieing what’s the harm!

charmaspice

Awe…..Who Me?

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Nice Matters

So, my pal Big Binder has nominated me for the Nice Matters Award. I am really flattered and honored to recieve such an award! The question now comes….to whom do I pass the award onto, as I need to pick only 2 of my many nice friends out of both real life & the blog world. I have tons of nice friends out there, and just because I didn’t nominate you doesn’t mean you’re not loved by me…..because you are!

I would like to nominate The Artistic Pursuit of Life on Earth as my first choice. He is a dear friend, the friend that actually introduced me to my darling cynical husband. I’ve been friends with him in real life for 13 years now, and he’s a pretty nice guy. We were even roommates in college for a year and a half. I also want to nominate him for his recent rediscovery of finding himself in his art once again. I can only hope that one day I’ll rediscover what I want to do with my life (besides being a mom). Check out his art work, it’s for sale, and it’s pretty cool!

My second nomination goes to Why Mommy at Toddler Planet. I do not know Why Mommy personally, but I’ve been following her difficult path in life for about a month and a half now. She is a very brave woman going through Inflammatory Breast Cancer. I have posted her previous post before, but I would like to do it again as it is important to get the word out about Inflammatory Breast Cancer. This wonderful woman was a Scientist before becoming a mom to 2 great kids. She strives to balance her life as a mom while dealing with the daily rigamorals of chemo & cancer, and trying to find herself in the science world.

charmaspice

Colorado Continues

So….here’s the update on life in CO on vacation. On Sunday I was invited out with Jackie & her mom to go see “The Devil Wears Parada”, as well as go to lunch. We went to a yummy mexican place, and then did some shopping before the movie. The movie was good, and a highy reccommended chick flick. They could have cut out the last 15-20 minutes, but what can you ask for from a chick flick! On Monday we went to one of the nicer malls in town, and shopped around. Then we came back, and lounged around our woderful host & hostesses home. On Tuesday we celebrated Brad’s birthday by going to Dave & Busters. It’s a video arcade with many bars inside. Afterwards we went over to the movie theater to go see The Pirates of the Carribean. It was an okay movie, kinda long, but many fine Johnny Depp sites were to be seen. Then we came home to go out for fish taco’s with our host’s, followed by an awesome dessert tray that had creame puffs, tiramisu, and some other yummy thing that was completely devowered. On Wednesday we went downtown and shopped along the 16th street mall. They have some really cute shops along the way, and it’s great excersize! We of course went to my favorite shop Breaking the Mold, and bought large amounts of awesome smelling candles. While down there we met Chris for lunch at one of the Brewerys on the strip. VERY yummy beer, and veggie burgers! Today we slept in late, what vacations are all about, and then headed out for some breakfast. Afterwards, we went to the Downtown Aquarium. It was very neat, and had some awesome tanks with some cool fish in it. We watched a few of the tanks get fed, and I was able to touch a horse shoe crab, as well as a couple of sting rays. We took a ton of pics, and some neat videos too. So be on the look out in the photo gallery as soon as we get home. Tomorrow we are going with Chris out to Golden, and Red Rocks, to do some touristing. Our plans include a Coors brewery tour, and lunch in Boulder. On Saturday we are VERY excited about going to Castle Rocks wine festival, to do some yummy tasting. I think on Sunday we are hitting a rather large dirt mall, and then we are planning on leaving on Monday towards MI. We don’t know if we’re gonna stay in St. Louis and do the SOuth route, or not, but it’s in our thinking plans right now. Clare is having fun with her Pa Pa & Buscia this week (aka Brad’s parentals), and this weekend she is headed to my parents until we come and get her. Moonshadow is with her too. Overall it’s been a relaxing vacation, and we can’t wait to get up into the mountain foot hills tomorrow. It’ll be a bummer to go home, but I guess Brad has to be to work on Thursday, and I have to return to Motherhood at some point. Til Nextime…

charmaspice

Colorado at Last!!!

So….we made it out to Colorado for our annual vacation. We left Thursday 7/13 evening to go to Brad’s parents. After getting Clare & Moonshadow to bed we got about 3 hours of sleep, woke about 2:30am to head out. Clare and Moonshadow are of course on vacaion at Pa Pa & Buscia’s, and next weekend will be on vacation with Grandma and Pa Pa. We stopped just inside of IN to fill our tank, get some fresh ice, and the usual energy drinks to help us make it cross country. I started out driving the early shift, and made it into Iowa by about 9:30am or so. Then it was Brad’s turn to drive for 6 hours. I think the first 6 hours are the easiest, it’s those last 12 hours that are killer! We stopped along the way for the usual potty breaks, ate breakfast at Dunkin Donuts….they have an awesome breakfast sandwich on a crossiant that hit the spot! We had terrible, greasy truck stop pizza at the Cum & Go in NE somewhere. We decided to wait until we made it into Denver to eat dinner…which was a great choice, as we had sushi, always a plus! We made our worst tme ever this year….it took us about 19 hours to get out here from Niles. We were held up in some pretty bad Chicago traffic as it was down to 1 lane, and then it rained like it had never before. I couldn’t see shit, with the fog and heavy rains. I just kept my eyes peeled for the tail lights in front of me, and in the right hand lane. Neither of us slept very well, and were whooped by the time we arrived. Yesterday we slept in, ate a leisurly breakfast, and did absolutely nothing! We watched some movies, and munched all afternoon. Today is looking pretty similiar. I paid our few bills, to assure that we don’t overspend on our vacation, Chris & Brad are out to Wally World, and the Asian food store for some things, and Jackie is off to a kick boxing class. So, I am all alone! I dream about these moments, as I get very few of them. So, I am sitting in a quiet house, eating my Dr. Pepper Jelly Bellies…..my favorite! I think I may go read for a bit when I am done here. We have no definite plans, as we tend to fly by the seat of our pants out here. I have a “few” things on my list….I never get to do all of the things I find, but we always do something interesting none the less.

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Weekend Bliss

So, this past weekend was absolutely great! It all started with my traveling to Port Huron on Thursday afternoon to drop Clare off with the grandparents for the whole weekend. I came home to Brad wanting to make an ice cream run….which I can always do!

Friday I had the whole day to myself…..I haven’t had one of those days in forever. Probably not since I was in college, and then I so did not appreciate that time. I sat around on the computer uninterrupted, got a shower, painted my toe nails, and then decided to go to the movies by myself. People always make such a huge deal out of doing it, but I love it. I can lounge all over, and not worry about it. I had popcorn for lunch! I went to go see “Failure to Launch”, which by the way was very good. I came home to my dog, Moonshadow….she is such a good dog when Clare’s not around to egg her on. We played in the living room for a bit, and then Brad came home. Then came the most aweful decision of what to do for dinner?!?! We decided to go to Mongolian BBQ, as they have alcohol and good food.

Saturday was super nice out. We went to the brand new Omelette Shoppe here in Breton Village Mall, and it was so yummy. I am still thinking about the Alaskan scramble I had! Shrimp, Krab, and cream cheese with dill all scrambled up in some eggs. Doesn’t sound too good, but it was. Then we wandered the tiny thing they call the mall there, to run into one of Brad’s co-workers. It was kinda funny, he was introduced to this guys daugher as his boss. I never think about Brad being someone’s boss, so it kinda made me chuckle in my head. Then we came home to get our Costco list, and headed out to do some grocery shopping. We came home and I cleaned house in preparation for our night out with the Geeks to see Domestic Problems. I made some phone calls to only find out that they were all drunk already, and were gonna take a cab there instead of coming to my house to eat the huge pizza’s I bought thinking they were coming here. I was so mad! Not that I spent $8 on pizza nobody was gonna eat, but that I bought it….and it was taking up large amounts of my fridge because they are huge! So, I gave it to my parents for bring Clare back to us on Sunday. We did end up having 2 of our friends come over, but that was because they wanted to escape the retardness that was happening at their place with the drunk geeks. So, we had a few drinks with them in order to be budget savy on our bar tab. Thanks for coming over and hanging Steph & Brandon! So, we left here about 9pm and headed up to Billy’s to go see Domestic Problems. There was a line, and the bar was over capacity. So, we waited in line in hopes of getting in. A bunch of people left the line, and soon I was at the front of the line. We got in just in time to see them take the stage. Brad was nice enough to let me go in without him, but he was shortly in too. The night was absolutely CRAZY!

About 11 or so on Sunday I went upstairs, and was just about to get in the shower when my parents showed up with Clare. They stayed for about half an hour, and then took off as they had to get back for my dad’s Fire Dept. Awards Ceremony. Clare got a baseball set for Easter from them, so she had to play baseball as soon as they left. I got her to watch a movie while I got a shower, and then we went outside. It was so nice out, and it’s supposed to be that way all week! YEAH, I think warm is finally here to stay for a few months. We played baseball for a little bit, and then she was onto her sand box. So, I cleaned up the backyard by raking all the dead grass and leaves up. By the time it was all said and done it was almost dinner time.

All in all it was a great weekend, and I would have to say even though I am extremely tired from all the activity, I feel like a new person from being so busy after our winter of being hermits. Of course, that could be from getting some alone time too!

dead headphonist

Woohoo… more regular blogging.

Hello all. Well… I’ve spent a little time with the new Al Green
disc around my earlobes. It’s nice… not a crazy as the last
disc was after not hearing that sound for 30 years, but
still the same funky, immediately accessible, Al Green that he’s always
been. We also grabbed the latest Weezer disc, which is great
simple pop for cruising around with the windows down on a sunny summer
afternoon.

Two beers this week that I highly recommend… Founder’s RUBAEUS
(raspberry ale… mmm… mmm…) and Orange Blossom Cream Ale from
Buffalo Bill’s Brewery in Hayward, CA. Definitely getting my
fruit on for the summer.

More music that is highly recommended this week ::

Verve Remixed 3 (and of course, the $5 unmixed disc)

Jack Johnson - In Between Dreams

Common - Be

Green Day - American Idiot (not sure if I’ve mentioned this before… Green Day FINALLY made a punk album). :P

Anyway… catch ya’ll on the flip side… hope this entry finds you all
safe and happy. Please notice, I’m doing some updating around
here… look for more coming in the weeks ahead!

–bc