As many of you know, we are reluctant migrators to Grand Rapids. At first, Kalamazoo was our home and it is a town that we dearly loved and felt like we had our place in. When I got a job here in GR, we kept living in Kalamazoo and I commuted. One day, it was pointed out to me that I had a moving benefit available to me that had a lot of advantage; basically moving Char and I up a notch in the housing scheme of things for absolutely no cash outlay of my own. What a deal!
We decided to get an apartment first and get the lay of the land before buying a house. We moved into the luxurious trailer park high-rise up on Alpine and went about our merry way, trying to find our place in this seemingly commercialized urban landscape that was rather unfamiliar to both us.
After a couple of years (and a baby), we decided it best to buy a house and we had a pretty good idea where it ought to be. We landed here in Eastown, in what can only be described as a gem of a home on a great block with really great neighbors. Life was good, but we had never built the sense of community that we had in Kalamazoo.
After a few years of being here (more than I’d like to admit to), we discovered an online social networking tool called Twitter. It’s actually a really simple application with a very simple interface; send up to 140 characters at a time in “microblog” fashion. The only other major feature is the ability to “follow” other users who are doing the same thing, getting a “blow by blow” list of everything everyone you’re following says. You can respond to each others “tweets”.
Kind of interesting. The geeks actually pointed it out and we moved the geeklist there first. Then I discovered that there was actually a large group of local people (GR Twitterfolk) who were also doing the same thing the geeklist was doing. I got intrigued and started following random people who looked interesting and who were local. My lovely wife did the same and soon started to become a member of a local social group that discusses things going on around town, our common lives, good places to eat and get entertainment, and pretty much any other topic under the sun.
This has gone on for a while and we’ve been begged to come to what is known as a tweetup (a local gathering of online friends who use twitter). We’ve been unable to attend for various reasons and always been sad about it. Thus, we keep on communicating with these good folks via Twitter and hoping to get together someday, which is very exciting.
The reason this is exciting? Well… this group has created that missing sense of community for Char and me. We have just recently come to love our town for so many reasons, including the passion that these folks have for the great things in our city (and there are a lot of them). But we’ll get to that in a minute.
As most of you know, we’ve had a hell of a couple of weeks around here. A lot has happened. My car got stolen a couple of weeks ago and showed back up with a crumpled roof and hood this week. Last night, some hooligans stole a group of pumpkins from our porch, one of which was a pumpkin that Clare had grown from a seed this year. It was heartbreaking after the emotion of having the car stolen and the pain in the neck that entailed.
Of course, we shared our woes with our community, the good people of the GR Twitter group. Sympathy was given all around when talking about how our faith in humanity had been somewhat shattered by the goings-on of the past couple of weeks. It made both Char and I feel better to vent our frustrations and talk about how some of the people in our town had really let us down. It really was therapeutic.
Tonight, about 15 of them showed up to our place and left an amazing number of beautiful pumpkins on our front porch (as well as left us a couple of bottles of Dark Horse beer… yeah!!!). Both of us are in complete and utter awe of the kindness of this group of people. Shocked is a word, but it doesn’t point out the jaw-dropped, tears welling up joy that this act brought to our Eastown household tonight. There are not words in the English language to describe just how we feel about our friends. Suffice it to say that this is kindness and caring unlike anything we’ve ever experienced in GR and that we are genuinely moved at this self-less and random act of kindness.
GR Twitterfolk are one of the greatest things about this city, and after tonight, I feel more passionately about that than ever.
Here’s some grainy pics that don’t do justice to this.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/deadheadphonist/sets/72157608311613612/











